SexPosFemme Journal

Sunday, July 31, 2005

Most Annoying Things to Say to Bisexual Women

(and some of these apply to bisexual men too)

Bisexuality As Half Truth

1. Are you really a lesbian, but you just don't want to hurt my feelings because you think I'm such a nice guy?

2. Are you really straight, but afraid to trust me just because I'm a guy?

3. Are you really straight, but you're just being nice to me because I'm a girl?

4. Are you really a lesbian, but afraid to trust women/don't want to be seen as gay?

5. What would you call yourself if there were no such thing?

6. Why don't you just say you're straight/gay?

Bisexuality as a Plan/Fulfillment of Someone Else's Plans

7. Were you "like that" your whole life?

8. Did you boyfriend/partner/husband talk you "into it"?

9. Why don't you just get a boyfriend?

10. Are you "doing this" just because you think guys like "that"?

11. Don't let some girl "lure" you into "doing that".

12. Are you "in it" just for sex?

13. "Trying" to increase your chances of getting a date?

14. Why do you want "it" "both ways"?

15. Are you really that desperate for sex/love/attention?

16. Do you think maybe you've been brainwashed by society/media into liking girls/guys?

Bisexuals as More Sexual than Others (not that it should matter if you are more sexual than others, if that's actually true about you as an individual)

17. Why don't you just stop thinking about girls/guys?

18. Is that all you ever think about?

19. Why do you have to "go around announcing" it?

20. Oh you mean like trysexual as in you'll "try anything" sexual?

21. Are you coming on to me?

22. It's like you have no standards.

23. (If you're a "virgin" to guy/girls) Then how do you know you're bisexual?

24. (If you're in a relationship or celibate) Then how are you still bisexual?

Bisexuality as an Escapist/Reactive Realm and Trauma/Fear-Based Realm

25. (see #1-4)

26. Do you just feel safer around women?

27. I bet you think all girls are nice don't you?

28. Were you abused as a child? Is that what this is all about? ('Vagina Monologues', thanks a lot)

29. Don't you know the gay/bi/straight community aren't perfect either?

30. Why don't you heal/love yourself/get over yourself?

31. Will you "marry straight" when all "this" is "over"?


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    Very long, but decent list :)

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  • At 11:04 AM, Blogger Nicole Mazzeo said…

    I enjoyed this list and might reference it in a sex positive student group I'm planning to start at my school. My one criticism is "if you're in a relationship" implies that all relationships are monogamous.


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